184. A Sad True Story
Some while ago, I was corresponding with someone in England. After a few weeks of being interested, I had not yet discovered a dealbreaker according to my criteria. But he had the dangerous hobby of riding a motorcycle and one day he told me that he was off to see a friend.
Then all of a sudden, I heard nothing from him for over a week and started to get worried, that he could have had an accident. Knowing his real name and his location, I found his telephone number.
The phone was answered by his wife, a very unhappy woman, who had a full time job earning the living for the entire family including two sons, while he was unemployed and not only enjoyed his life on her expenses but also played games with other women.
Sometimes I am getting disheartened and paranoid, that there are only jerks everywhere. Then I remind myself that there have been exceptions like André Gorz, and I continue my quest for a decent, hypoanimalistic and mature mindmate.
Some while ago, I was corresponding with someone in England. After a few weeks of being interested, I had not yet discovered a dealbreaker according to my criteria. But he had the dangerous hobby of riding a motorcycle and one day he told me that he was off to see a friend.
Then all of a sudden, I heard nothing from him for over a week and started to get worried, that he could have had an accident. Knowing his real name and his location, I found his telephone number.
The phone was answered by his wife, a very unhappy woman, who had a full time job earning the living for the entire family including two sons, while he was unemployed and not only enjoyed his life on her expenses but also played games with other women.
Sometimes I am getting disheartened and paranoid, that there are only jerks everywhere. Then I remind myself that there have been exceptions like André Gorz, and I continue my quest for a decent, hypoanimalistic and mature mindmate.
